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باید اعتراف کنم من جزو اون گروهی از آدمام که انتظار دارم به ازای بیست درصد تلاش، هشتاد درصد موفقیت به دست بیارم
من و جماعتی که باهاشون تو یک گروهم، از همه بیشتریم.
اکثریت غالب جامعه ایم.
من وقتی کلاس زبان میرم انتظار دارم وقتی از کلاس بیرون میام مثل بلبل انگلیسی حرف بزنم. انتظار من از کلاس زبان، چیزی شبیه اسفناج ملوان زبل👌 یا عسل بامزیه💪:
بدون اینکه نیاز باشه خودم کار خاصی بکنم، کتابی بخونم، فیلم و سریالی ببینم، با کلمه ها و اصطلاحاشون ور برم، بنویسم، گوش کنم، حرف بزنم، اهل سرچ و تحقیق باشم یا با آدمایی که به اون زبان حرف میزنن تعامل کنم، بدون همه ی اینها… انتظار دارم یک چیزی شبیه آمپول تقویتی تو کلاس بهم تزریق کنن تا فوری زبان باز کنم و مثل بلبل انگلیسی حرف بزنم.
اگه اینجوری نشه، کلاس کارآمد نیست و انتظارات منو برآورده نمیکنه.
انتظار من تو بقیه قسمتای زندگی هم تقریبا شبیه همین کلاس زبان رفتنه.
من عجله دارم. میخوام سریع برسم اون بالا. حوصله ی خاک خوری ندارم. من عجله دارم به سرعت پول دربیارم. پول زیاد🤑. میخوام فوری کارم بالا بگیره. حوصله پله پله رفتن ندارم. من آدم دوپینگم. دنبال کاتالیزور. موفقیت یک شبه. ”قطره قطره جمع گردد…” مال قدیمیاس. من حوصله ندارم. الان میخوام. همه شم میخوام.
من دنبال راه میانبرم. پول مفت و بی دردسر. ”بذار تو بانک سودشو بگیر” یا ”از این دست بگیر، از اون دست بفروش.”
من کار نمیخوام. من پول میخوام.

من حوصله ی یاد گرفتن ندارم: ”واسه ما دیره… کی حوصله داره تو این سن و سال”
امتحان آیین نامه میدم بدون اینکه لای کتابشو باز کرده باشم. سوالا رو حدسی جواب میدم. ولی باید قبول بشم.
از سر و ته کارم میزنم چون ”گور بابای مملکت” یا ”برو به اونایی که خوردن و بردن بگو”
من تو مترو و اتوبوس هل میدم و نوبت بقیه رو میگیرم چون دولت فرهنگسازی نکرده. همه جاهای دنیا تو مدرسه ها یاد میدن که هل ندن. چون به من یاد ندادن من هل میدم. مشکل جامعه س که به من یاد نداده.
من تو ساختمونی که داره رو سرم خراب میشه با خیال راحت قدم میزنم و فیلم میگیرم. چون قبلا آموزش ندیده ام. خودم عقلم نمیرسه ساختمان آتش گرفته رو ترک کنم. تو مدرسه هم یادم ندادن. مسوولین باید فرهنگسازی کنن.
من تو مترو و اتوبوس به جای کتاب خوندن، آدمای اطرافو برانداز میکنم. به مردم زل میزنم چون آموزش ندیده ام. اگه دولت فرهنگسازی کرده بود من این کارو نمیکردم. پس به من ربط نداره. مشکل جامعه س.
اگه چارشنبه سوری تن مردمو می لرزونم به خاطر اینه که آموزش ندیده ام.
اگه به آتش نشانی و آمبولانس راه نمیدم به خاطر اینه که آموزش ندیده ام.
اگه ده ها برابر پول یک کتاب رو خرج قلمبه کردن گونه ها و قلوه ای کردن لبهام میکنم به خاطر اینه که مسوولا فرهنگسازی نکردن.
اگه چند ساعت شیر آبو باز میذارم تا فرش و موکت بشورم و باغچه آب بدهم به خاطر اینه که دولت فرهنگسازی نکرده. منم در عوض پولشو میدم و هرچقدر دلم بخواد اسراف میکنم.
چرا کسی به ما آموزش نمیده؟
چرا مسوولین رسیدگی نمیکنن؟
چرا کسی پاسخگو نیست؟

به من یاد ندادن: ”هرکی خودشو درست کنه مملکت هم درست میشه”
من منتظر منجی ام. یک نفری که بیاد و یک تنه همه چیو درست کنه. هرکی میاد و میره میگم: ”نچ… اینم کاری نکرد.”
همیشه همینطوری بودم. از زمان پادشاهای قدیم تا الان.

من آموزش ندیده ام که فکر کنم. آموزش ندیده ام از عقلم استفاده کنم. آموزش ندیده ام از تجربه هام درس بگیرم.
یاد گرفته ام دنبال مقصر بگردم:
قالیباف مقصرتر بود یا شلوغی مردم؟
یهودیا مقصرتر بودن یا بنیاد مستضعفان؟
بمب نبود؟💣 دستهای پشت پرده؟😎 توطئه ی دشمن؟
من این نوشته رو میخونم. تو دلم میگم ”برو بابا، فقط ما مشکل داریم؟… بقیه کشورا هم مشکل دارن

 

 

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