آن چیزی که برای شما شفاف است برای طرف مقابلتان شفاف نخواهد بود.

شهروند:
معلمی داشتیم که سر کلاس تمرین جالبی به ما می‌داد. می‌گفت روبروی کلاس بایستیم و سعی کنیم ریتم و ملودی یکی از آهنگ‌هایی را که بسیار دوست داریم برای بچه‌ها اجرا کنیم. حق نداشتیم کلمه‌ای بر زبان بیاوریم و تنها باید با “آم و اوم و دیدیم و دودوم” می‌کوشیدیم که به بقیه‌ی بچه‌ها بگوییم که چه آهنگی مد نظر ماست. با وجودی که تعداد آهنگ‌ها در آن سالها خیلی کم بود (بیست و دو بهمن، خمینی ای امام، پای به هر طرف بنه بهار را صدا بزن، ای مجاهد شهید مطهر، گل می‌روید به باغ گل می‌روید و چند مورد سرود دیگر)، معمولاً‌ در انتقال پیام خود به هم کلاسی‌ها موفق نبودیم. چقدر عصبی می‌شدیم وقتی که موسیقی با جزییات در ذهنمان نواخته می‌شد اما بر زبانمان جاری نمی‌شد و برایمان عجیب بود که چرا هم‌کلاسی‌ها، با وجود وضوح آهنگ و موسیقی، نمی‌توانند نام آن را حدس بزنند.

معلم مان، هر وقت که در این کار شکست می‌خوردیم، پیروزمندانه می‌ایستاد و توضیح می‌داد که: بچه‌ها. همه‌ی زندگی همین است. آن چیزی که در ذهن شما شفاف و واضح است و به نظر خودتان به صورت مشخص و واضح بیان می‌کنید، برای طرف مقابل‌تان به سادگی قابل درک نیست.
بعدها در خانه و زندگی، بارها و بارها این بازی تلخ را تجربه خواهید کرد.

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