اگر کسی را سرزنش کنید، سرزنش خواهید شد.

نمیدانم چرا هر وقت بحث تجربه میشو یاد پیرمردها می افتیم. در صورتیکه بعضی مسائل هست که که تجربه یه جوون بیست خورده ای ساله بیشتر از یه فرد 50 ساله هست. منظورم مسائل مرتبط با تکنولوژی و کوانتوم و روشهای تست زنی کنکور نیست . منظورم همین بعضی مسائل ساده زندگیه.
چند سال پیش که جو گیر شده بودم و داشتم حدیث قدسی حفظ میکردم. تو یه سایتی یه جمله ای از امام صادق خوندم :


اگر کسی را به خاطر کاری سرزنش کنید حتما تا قبل از مرگ همان کار را انجام خواهید داد و سرزنش خواهید شد.
واااای . وقتی اینرا خواندم انگار در لبه دره بزرگی مملو از اب حیات قرار گرفته بودم . یعنی هیجان تا این حد. فقط دنبال یه نفر بودم که این درک تازه ای که پیدا کرده بودم رو بهش بگم و به قولی فخر بفروشم.
ان لحظه سیستم “تحلیل وقایع دوروبرم” قاطی کرده بود . انگار یه چیزی مثل الکتریسیته زمان ادیسون کشف کرده بود.
خاهشا چند لحظه به این جمله دقت کنید و بلاهایی که سرتان امده را با ان تطبیق دهید.
دیدید؟ متحیر شدید؟
الان که فکر میکنم یادمه زمانی یه نفر رو به این خاطر که میگفت درس خوندن اخر و عاقبت نداره سرزنشش کردم. یادمه وقتی 15 ساله بودم یکی از فامیلامون که22 سالش بود و بخاطر نداشتن کار افسرده بود سرزنش کردن. یادمه یه نفر رو بخاطر اینکه میگفت بدشانسم سرزنشش کردم. یادمه خیلیا رو که فکر میکردن چون پارتی ندارن کارهاشون راست و ریس نمیشه ، سرزنششون کردم. یادمه یه نفر رو که میگفت از بی پولی زیاد ضربه خورده سرزنشش کردم. یادمه عاشق شدن ددستمو سرزنش کردم و خیلی سرزنشش های دیگه….
و الان من مانده ام و صف تمام تاوانهایی که باید بخاطر ان سرزنشها بپردازم .
میدانید که بدترین جای این قا نون کجاست؟ انجاست که میبینید پدرتان مادربزرگتان را سرزنش میکند و همین پدرتان در اینده باید به دست شما مورد سرزنش قرار بگیرد و شما توسط فرزندتان

و اینگونه میشود که در اینمورد تجربه من بیشتر از خیلی های بزرگتر از من میشود.

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