فقط یه سوال باقی می مونه: آیا همین الانشم تو ایران آینده برای شما کاملا قابل پیش بینیه؟

شکی نیست که آدم سی ساله به شارپی ِ آدم بیست ساله نیست و هرچی آدم جوونتر باشه راحت تر خودشو با جامعه وفق میده. ولی معنیش این نیست که اگه سی سالگی رو رد کردین و تازه مشغول درس خوندن شدین یا مهاجرت کردین عمرتون تباه شده. این برمیگرده به کلیشه ی ذهنی ما ایرانی ها که هرکاریو تو هرسنی میخوایم شروع کنیم خیال میکنیم الان دیگه دیره. 😞😔😕😔😕
یک تفاوت ِ ما با جامعه ی کشورهای اروپایی همینه. تفکر ِ غالب تو هلند اینه که هرآدمی تا وقتی زنده است و توان داره شاید لازم باشه گاهی بره درس بخونه و هیچ وقت واسه این کار دیر و عار نیست. اگه سنتون بالای سی ساله و دارین تو یکی از کشورای خارجی درس میخونین احتمالا شبیه ِ این جمله رو از دوستان و آشناهاتون تو ایران زیاد شنیدین که میگن: “بنده خدا تو این سن تازه داره درس میخونه… میدونم خیلی سخته تو این سن درس خوندن… کی حوصله داره تو این سن و سال مهاجرت کنه” 😴💤😴
فضای عمومی تو ایران باعث میشه آدمها خیلی جلوتر از سنشون احساس پیری کنن و تو هرسنی هستن پیش خودشون بگن الان دیگه واسه تغییر خیلی دیره و باید زودتر از این شروع میکردم.
تو هلند اینطوری نیست.
کسی تعجب نمیکنه از دیدن یک آقای 60 ساله مثلا که سر ِ کلاس نشسته و مشغول یادگیریه. شاید ریشه ش امید به زندگی باشه که تو این جوامع بالاست. درمورد یکی از اساتید برجسته ی نقاشی و طراحی تو ژاپن معروفه که تازه تو سن هشتاد سالگی تصمیم گرفت سراغ هنر برود و تو نود سالگی تبدیل به هنرمند بزرگی شد.
خوشبختانه کشورایی مثل کانادا، امریکا یا هلند برعکس ایران مدرک گرا نیستن و سالهای زیادی از عمرشونو صرف جمع کردن تایتل فوق لیسانس و دکترا نمیکنن. با خوندن چنتا کورس و برداشتن چنتا درس عملی تو کالج و دوره های وکیشنال میشه خیلی راحت تر از فردی که مدرک بالای دانشگاهی داره کار مرتبط پیدا کرد و با جمع کردن سابقه کار، به سرعت پیشرفت کرد. تو این کشورا هرچه مدرک دانشگاهی بالاتر باشه شغل پیداکردن سخت تر میشه و شاید گاهی برحسب شرایط ناچار باشین مدرک فوق لیسانس یا دکتراتونو رو نکنین تا اورکوالیفای نشین.
رمز موفقیت تو هلند اینه که مدت کوتاه و محدودی صرف درس خوندن کنین و مدرک و تحصیلاتتون رو با فضای اونجا کوک کنین. در یه دوره ی آموزشی کوتاه و مناسب هم شانس نت ورکینگ با استادا و همکلاسیا رو پیدا میکنین. هیچ بعید نیست خود شاگردای کلاس، افراد شاغلی باشن که برای ارتقای رتبه علمی شون دارن اون درسو میگذرونن و شاید بتونن معرف شما بشن برای کار تو شرکتشون. غیراز این با شرکت تو کلاس ها، خیلی زودتر و راحت تر با جامعه ی جدید منطبق میشین، هم روحیه و انگیزه میگیرین هم زبانتون زودتر روی ریل میفته و خیلی چیزای دیگه.
کل این چیزا البته منوط به اینه که رشته و درسی رو که میخونین دوست داشته باشین نه صرفا به خاطر فاند و بورس.
درسته با مهاجرت کردن خودتونو در معرض ریسک میذارین ولی از اونطرف هم در صورت موفق شدن، جهش بسیار بسیار بزرگی تو زندگیتون ایجاد کردین. آیا تا حالا هیچ موفقیت و جهش بزرگی رو بدون ریسک تو دنیا دیدین؟
فقط یه سوال باقی می مونه: آیا همین الانشم تو ایران آینده برای شما کاملا قابل پیش بینیه؟

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